A Life Well Lived and Deeply Loved
Deborah Jean Daids, a beloved daughter, mother, grandmother, sister, friend, and tireless community advocate, passed away peacefully on November 26, 2025, at the age of 72.
Born on March 10, 1953, Deborah was the cherished daughter of the late James C. McCoy and Josephine Daids (Phillips). From an early age, she was known for her boundless energy, generous heart, and unwavering commitment to helping others. Her compassion was not something she learned—it was who she was.
Deborah was educated in the Newark Public School System and proudly graduated from Weequahic High School. She later attended Rutgers University–Newark, continuing to build the foundation of knowledge and purpose that would guide her throughout her life.
Motherhood became her greatest joy after her marriage to Samuel Clark and the birth of their son, Kendall Samuel Clark. While raising her son, Deborah pursued a fulfilling career in healthcare, serving as a patient rights and quality control advocate at Beth Israel Hospital. For 30 years, she stood as a powerful voice for those who could not speak for themselves. A lifelong learner, she earned countless professional certifications—far too many to fully list—each one a reflection of her devotion to serving her community.
After retirement, Deborah transformed her deep passion for uplifting others into the creation of her nonprofit organization, Healing Hands, through which she worked tirelessly to provide essential resources for women in need. She embodied compassion in action and became, as so many lovingly described her, “a mother to many and a sister to all.”
Beyond her advocacy, Deborah found joy in the simple, beautiful moments of life. She was an exceptional cook, always eager to recreate and improve any dish she tasted. She loved taking
mini-vacations, spending time with her SisterFriends and SisterCousins, and embracing the warmth of the community she so deeply cherished.
Deborah is survived by her loving son, Kendall Samuel Clark; her adored grandchildren, Kerizma Clark and Kendall Clark Jr.; her sisters, Sharon Daids and Melina El; and her brothers, Labeeb Malik Abdullah (Jilletta) and James Daids (Dewana). She also leaves behind a host of nieces, nephews, extended family, and countless members of the community whose lives she touched with her kindness, generosity, and love.
She is preceded in death by her father, James C. McCoy, and her sister, Phyllis Stokes-Turner.
The family extends heartfelt gratitude to her devoted support circle—Jennifer, Carol, Genie, and Margo—whose love and care brought comfort and joy to Deborah throughout her life.
Deborah’s legacy is one of service, love, resilience, and community. Her spirit will continue to guide and inspire all who knew her, and her impact will be felt for generations to come.